The first mistake you can make on a date? Choosing an absolutely unsuitable location. Women definitely do not want to be taken out in these 8 places
Where to go on the first date? This question is crucial for whether the date will be a success or go down the drain. You can score points with a creative idea, but it shouldn’t be too whacky either. After all, it’s all about creating the perfect atmosphere to get to know each other. So that you know at which locations you’re more likely to scare off the lady than win her over, here’s an overview of the worst places for the first date.
Sauna or swimming pool – welcome to the meat inspection
Unless you’ve met the good one at nude tobogganing, you should refrain from proposals where one is (half)naked. Let’s be honest: Who feels comfortable with such a meat inspection? Or do you really want her to applaud your washboard in public? Please don’t! Besides, it only distracts from the essentials – namely getting to know each other – if you have to permanently concentrate on looking her spasmodically in the eyes and not on the birthmark between the breasts. That’s why it’s still possible to visit saunas and swimming pools when both of you will soon have a real crush on each other. Before that, please keep your clothes on first.
Family celebration – grandma must unfortunately stay outside
The family in all honor, but please leave the clan out when it comes to the date with the dream woman in spe. Your sister may be a cool sock – but you should only take her new flame to her birthday party when you know her a little better. On the one hand, because there’s probably nothing more unpleasant than being gawked at by the other person’s family like an exotic zoo animal, and on the other hand, for self-protection: Or how do you actually know if your Tinder catch won’t turn out to be an absolute flop?
The buddies’ regular pub – Brudi, get lost!
Do you really need a chaperone on your first date? Let’s face it, the days of having your buddies sit 2 tables away as undercover investigators to directly judge the hottie are long gone. Leave the buddies out of it if you want to get to know your date in peace and without bias. Should more develop, you can always introduce them to your buddies.
If the woman herself is an absolute soccer fan, then the stadium is indeed top as a dating location. And if her favorite club is also playing, it’s great! But if that’s not the case, you can leave your season ticket to your little brother this weekend. But your club is playing for the championship right then? Then why the hell do you have a date?!
Cinema – Silence instead of groping
From an early age, we’ve been taught that the best place to meet a woman is at the cinema. That may work really well for 14-year-olds. For everyone else, the movie theater is the dating place for those who have nothing to say to each other. Do you really want to sit next to each other in silence for 2 hours and hope that their fingers touch in the popcorn bag like in a bad teen monzette? Or that the sweetie claws your strong shoulder in fear during the exciting scenes? Drop the idea very quickly and leave the cinema to the social phobics and nerds.
Heavy metal concert – are you into yelling?
Provided that the woman is not a fan of this music, a heavy metal concert is definitely not suitable for the first date. Who wants to yell at each other over the music or get their front man’s hair in their face because he’s headbanging a round? Not recommended if you want to convince a woman about you.
Your favorite fast food or kebab chain – No comment.
In the absoultly abstruse case that you’ve actually considered this – good heavens, no! Excuses like “But the kebab plate at Dö-Diner is really, really awesome” don’t count. Then you might as well take them to the bus stop for a can of beer.
Guys’ night out – as if on a platter
The absolute no-go for a first date: taking the woman to a guys’ night out. This is as fatal as the number with the random Best Buddies in the regular bar. Under the gaze of your buddies, your acquaintance will only feel like she’s on a platter. Besides, who knows if your buddies will still be able to control themselves after 4 beers, so that they won’t unpack the old story of when you were naked on the beach in Ibiza … Oh, let’s leave that alone.
In the Club – Don’t give the John Travolta in you a chance.
You want to show the woman that you can swing your hips properly? Better not on a first date – and certainly not in a crowded club. On the dance floor, you’ll have to shout in each other’s ears over thundering bass, or you’ll give up trying to have a conversation right away and dance wordlessly at the woman. Both variants are not recommended. The same applies to karaoke bars, by the way.
Conclusion: In these places it will be the worst date
The place for the first date can be crucial in some cases. Therefore, the following applies: stay away from the suggestions mentioned above if you don’t want to send the lady fleeing hastily. Then (almost) nothing can go wrong.
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